Showing posts with label dressember. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dressember. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 10, 2014

Life lately + Stuff I've read


It's been rather quiet around these parts lately, largely in part to the whole getting married, honeymooning, and flying back to Australia hullabaloo. Stephen and I arrived in Sydney a week ago, and between unpacking, organising our new home, getting back into regular schedules and leaving our laptop charger in the States, a chance to blog simply refused to appear. Naturally, part of me wants to sit and write about these precious, early days of marriage and how we're loving this life together. 

But then I remember how long it's been since I blogged about a book...

My November novel was A Tree Grows in Brooklyn, by Betty Smith. It's a title I've heard time and again, and when I saw a copy for $10 in the airport, I thought I'd give it a shot. And may I just say, it was a shot well taken.

A Tree Grows in Brooklyn is the most perfect coming-of-age story. It resonates in a way that feels far more real than much of today's popular coming-of-age literature (I think the term "literature" is used loosely), inviting the reader not only to sit in that familiar place of I've been there, but also challenging him or her to experience something new. It's a story of growing up in Brooklyn, becoming the sort of person that can flourish in any circumstance, much like a tree growing up between blocks of sidewalk, and the countless ways in which growing up feels unfinished and uncertain.

This book, it gets me. It is so many things that I have found myself being, from a young girl feeling somehow out of place to a young adult unsure if this is how everyone else feels when they reach certain milestones. Sure, Smith's novel finishes with the protagonist, Francie, turning 16 and getting ready for a date and I'm 24 and newly married, but even in the countless differences, there are gorgeous similarities.

The writing is beautiful, in a way that it so rarely is anymore. What I love most about this story is that it ends totally unfinished. Sure, there's a sense of resolution, but far greater than that sense of resolution is the sense that there is more to come, that as life progresses, so do our stories. We ought to find ourselves within these pages, but we ought not to stay there.

A Tree Grows in Brooklyn was the perfect wedding week story. It carried me to fond memories and then released me into a grand future and even though this post is obviously Stuff I've read, it's also everything that has happened lately and all the things that are about to.

I'm home now, and I hope you'll keep letting me share this adventure with you.

Most women had the one thing in common: they had great pain when they gave birth to their children. This should make a great bond that held them all together; it should make them love and protect each other against the man-world. But it was not so. It seemed like their great birth pains shrank their hearts and their souls. They stuck together for only thing: to trample on some other woman...it was the only kind of loyalty they seemed to have.

Francie was ten years old when she first found an outlet in writing. What she wrote was of little conssequence. What was important was that the attempt to write stories kept her straight on dividing the line between truth and fiction. If she had not found this outlet in writing, she might have grown up to be a tremendous liar.


My Dressember adventure is going strong and has been such fun; I'll be writing about it, and other life things, soon. In the meantime, if you'd like to make a donation to the Dressember Foundation, click here.

Tuesday, October 7, 2014

Dressember 2014


One of the best things about interning and volunteering for IJM Australia has been getting to witness people in my community and around the world investing their time and making a difference. There's something really good about seeing people, young and old, having passion for something significant.

Over the next few months, IJM Australia is being supported by and partnering with other organisations through different campaigns and fundraisers, and there's one in particular that I'm getting ready for.

Dressember: A movement of women (or men, if they so choose) wearing dresses every day for the month of December in an effort to raise awareness of the exploitation, trafficking, and oppression of women around the world, in an effort to restore dignity to women worldwide, in an effort to construct a more positive view of femininity, and in an effort to raise enough money to see the violent oppression of women end.

I'm really passionate about freedom and equality for all women, but I'm equally passionate about helping our cultures recognise that being feminine does not make women (or men, for that matter) weak. That's why I'm so amped for Dressember; it's a fundraiser that takes two of my favorite things (the fight against the global mistreatment of women + dresses) and makes it clear that these two things - which our culture often suggests cannot coexist - are, truly, in support of each other.

It's pretty simple - we wear dresses, and our friends, families, and communities sponsor our efforts. 100% of the money raised will go to IJM Australia (or the IJM office in whichever country a participant is living) to fight against exploitation and violent oppression of women.

I've decided to participate in Dressember this year, and I'm excited to see how this experience shapes me, how it increases my awarness of the women for whom I'm advocating, how it changes my perception of beauty and strength, and how it influences the people around me.

This year, IJM Australia is asking 50 girls and women to join us for the Dressember challenge. To learn more about the vision and set up your own campaign page, visit the Dressember website. If you'd like to donate to my campaign, you can find it here. Once December rolls around, I'll be blogging through the whole thing.

Learn more. Ask questions. Be part of the conversation.

I'd love for you to join me.